The Blog

Have you ever come face-to-face with yourself and remembered where the road forked? Meaning, that moment, that comment, that willingness to agree to something for the supposedly greater good that led to the exact place you swore you would never end up. I’ve had a full...

I lived in France for ten years.I still speak B1 French. After living there that long, a person should speak fluently without even trying, right? I used to make a joke about being married to an interpreter. I defend myself by saying that I worked in English every...

Today is just June 4th. I am writing this a month before you will even see it. And the content is so relevant to the energy of this month, I scrapped what I had intended to share. So even after Gemini replaced it with a summary I had asked for… wiping out what I had...

It was December 2013 in Winter Park, Florida. A beautiful little town.If you look at the photos of me taken that night, you will see a smiling, laughing face. They are somewhat deceiving. Although everything was textbook perfect—the restaurant, the pre-arranged...

I asked a client the other day why she was still with her husband.For thirty minutes she had been building the case for leaving. So I asked her directly: if you're sure it's over, what's keeping you from having that conversation?She was startled. She talked about the...

There is a moment — you know the one — where everything you have been holding together so beautifully starts to unravel like a poorly knit sweater. Something moves through your body that your mind immediately tries to name, explain, fix, or outrun. We call it anxiety....

What’s the moment emotional honesty begins to stabilize into trust? Do you know? Have you ever even thought about it? Or is trusting your partner to have your back a forbidden concept?If you’ve been carrying your relationship - and family - over functioning, managing,...

Is That What We Get to Learn This Month.. Mmmm Maybe.. Maybe notI just watched the movie He’s Just Not That Into You again.It’s an old movie.I’ve seen it before.But it was interesting that I didn’t see the same thing this time.Years ago, I watched it without having a...

Monthly Theme:Unfolding Truth — Living With Pressure Without Forcing ResolutionARC Focus:From Pressure → Awareness → Discernment → AuthorityEmotional Pulse:Restlessness → urgency → mental pressure → self-questioning → sensitivity → grounded clarityJanuary doesn’t...

How awareness — not willpower — creates change that lasts There comes a moment when you stop organizing your life around what hurt you — and start organizing it around what is true now.Every January humanity rushes to declare what will be true for them in the upcoming...

December is always loud. Festive, yes, and loud. Social gatherings, decorating, gift lists, and the excitement of children - school breaks - routine shifts.Mentally, socially and emotionally, it’s the month where pressure peaks, expectations tighten, and every...

Ten years ago, I left for Paris for nine months. I stayed for over nine years. Being a Splenic Manifestor, when people asked me why I moved to Paris, my response was, “why not?”I’ve learned that I have a high element of risk-taking. I believe anything is possible. I...