Are you always fighting about the same issues?

Are you always fighting about the same issues?

If you are in constant conflict in your marriage – the pattern has become familiar. And it has very little to do with whatever the “it” you are fighting about is.It’s just familiar. He says or does something that triggers your brain’s auto-response....
Do You Need A Wife Too?

Do You Need A Wife Too?

Hello lovely!… I asked a client the other day why she was still with her husband. For 30 minutes she had been repeating event after event and then saying she was done.”If you are positive it’s over, what keeps you from having the conversation or going to...
Do You Feel UnLovable?

Do You Feel UnLovable?

I have in the past. I discovered that was what was always underneath the pleasing, not asking for what I wanted – or even if I did, believing that he would or could do it.The dirty little secret was that I believed if “I were enough” my ex(s) would treat me the...
Are You “Fine” Alone?

Are You “Fine” Alone?

Are You Just FINE…Are You Just FINE…F  – Free, independently comfortable and fabulousI  – Intimately attuned to your needsN  – Not afraid to be youE  – Experienced enough to know the ride may be bumpy at times,...